Here are a few paragraphs from the book I just finished, Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp. This totally summarizes my passion for parenting!
The benefits are great, and doubtless other benefits could be deduced. Every parent wants the things outlined above for his child. But what about the costs? To be sure, these things do not come cheap. The cost is great. It requires being available and fully engaged in parenting.
There is a simple way to look at the cost of deep, full-orbed communication. You must regard parenting as one of your most important tasks while you have children at home. This is your calling. You must raise your children in the fear and admonition of the Lord. You cannot do so without investing yourself in a life of sensitive communication in which you help them understand life and God's world. There is nothing more important. You have only a brief season of life to invest yourself in this task. You have only one opportunity to do it. You cannot go back and do it over.
Parenting is your primary calling. Parenting will mean that you can't do all the tings that you could otherwise do. It will affect your golf handicap. It may mean your home does not look like a picture from
Better Homes and Gardens. It will impact your career and ascent on the corporate ladder. It will alter the kind of friendships you will be available to pursue. It will influence the kind of ministry you are able to pursue. It will modify the amount of time you have for bowling, hunting, television, or how many books you read. It will mean that you can't develop every interest that comes along. The costs are high.
How can you measure the cost against the benefits? God calls you to invest yourself in this way with your children. This kind of biblical communication is not just beneficial, it is mandated! It is the path of blessing because it is the path of obedience. Is this kind of communication expensive? Yes! But the benefits far exceed the cost.
Just wanted to share how I feel and this totally had it right on...I get chills everytime I read it or say it!